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Q: How can someone detach/forgive and still keep ones dignity and self -respect? It seems like a fine line between them. K.P. Colorado
A: Dear K.P.,
When someone you deeply care for treats you in a way that is disrespectful and uncaring it creates wounds in the emotional body and auric field that need to be healed. Forgiveness is a gift of healing that you first give to yourself and then to the other person. By forgiving them and also stepping back from the relationship you give yourself the ability to regain self-respect and heal the causes of the emotional wounds. These causes are generally a need of your spirit to rise in its strength and to stand in your power of love, dignity and self-respect for your spiritual autonomy.
Our union and connection with others is in love and caring for one another. Love is the only true bond. When two people cannot meet each other in this way, it is best to step back and move into self-healing. In this way you give space for love to enter yourself and the relationship again. Self dignity and respect are humble expressions of your spirit’s strength to be present with yourself and others.
Note from Pati: As we develop our ability to observe from a loving perspective it enables us to forgive. Forgiveness doesn't validate actions or behaviors as correct; it releases the mind and emotions from the prison of judgment, thereby gifting us with our natural state of spiritual freedom.
Q: How can I take care of myself when I’m so pulled in by the needs of others, feeling the need to help, and liking to help, just not at such personal cost? J.B. Colorado
A: Dearest J.B.,
There are karmic ties between you and another person that you are completing. It is a time for deep self- reflection and asking that these ties be complete so that you can move into a more empowered phase for both of you. When you free yourself from obligation created by spiritual agreements from the past, you release tremendous energy and power. This is true for both of you. Spiritual power while in the body can be directed in a balanced way towards self-care and service. Gathering spiritual power enables your service to be more effective. Spiritual power can also be gathered for transition into the spirit worlds when someone is closer to the end of life in the body. There are many ways to focus ones spiritual attention depending on the phase of life.
Go inward, ask for completion of spiritual ties, address any resistance or unwillingness with compassion and honoring for the needs it is meeting, and gather your spiritual power for greater effectiveness.
I hope you find these messages supportive. My mission is to bring our shared love in spirit into reality, by contributing to our evolution of spiritual growth through channeling, writing, speaking, psychic healing/ readings, and especially to journey with you into these healing energy fields so we can learn to live together in the higher vibrations of love.
I welcome your comments and feedback.